Many women are never taught how to attract men. Because of this many women go through
life without the ability to attract men. Here are 8 tips to help make
sure you aren’t sending him the wrong signals and making mistakes with
the man you’d like to attract:
1. Start with the proper staging. In a public place
you can meet anyone. Try to pick places where you think that the kind of
people you would want to meet would spend their time. A bar might be a
nice place to meet someone but you are more likely to meet someone with a
drinking problem if you meet someone there.
2. Think there is no “the rest”, there is only ME.
Don’t worry about what other women are doing. Don’t do what they are
doing, don’t look like them. He is not with them, so doing what they are
doing, and looking like them wont help. What kind of person do you want
him to want? Work on being that person.
3. Make elongated eye contact with hot men. In any
situation prolonged eye contact will give him the message that you have
an interest in him. The bigger your smile is an indication to him how
aggressive you want him to be. No smile at all and it may be several
chance encounters before he says something to you. A big smile may send
him running your way. If you are really interested in a particular guy,
why play games? Maybe a nod is needed to give him the signal that he
needs to come see you now. In a situation where there are lots of
distractions you may need to approach him even if its about something
incidental. “Pardon me, do you have the time?” will get you noticed and
will give him an opportunity to decide if the wants to meet you. “Pardon
me, I seem to have lost my earring, can you help me find it?” Such a
question will not only get you noticed but he will be hoping you never
find your earring so that he will have an opportunity to chat with you.
In a first meeting its important to set his expectations. The more
sexual your behavior, pursed pouty lips, he may be inclined to think of
you only for one thing.
4. Dress to impress, but be modest. Whatever your
body type, age or shape, there is a style of clothing, color, hair do,
whatever that will suit you best. Also don’t let your body type, age or
shape get in the way. Almost any woman can pretty much get almost any
guy if you play your cards right. Don’t dress in a manner that you would
not dress once your with him. This means: no greasy hair , well-fitting
clothes that suggest a level of modesty that leaves much to the
imagination and a faint scent of alluring perfume that will leave men
wondering just what makes you smell so good.
5. Don’t engage in false advertising. If you have
to look too inviting to attract a guy, believe me, you don’t want him.
Don’t over do it with makeup, don’t wear heels that are too high, don’t
wear a dress that’s too tight. Don’t cover it all up, but don’t let it
all hang out either. Go with your own hair as much as possible.
6. Wear red lipstick. I have no idea why but red lipstick is to guys like catnip is to our beloved feline friends.
7. Be confident. Expect that most men that you meet
will never get beyond being an acquaintance. Most men prefer the
confident, happy women. So don’t be afraid to make the first move, don’t
be afraid to engage a man in conversation. If a guy has to move a
conversation forward, then he will think of you more as a potential
conquest, instead of someone whom he should take seriously. Even if it
doesn’t work out, or nothing comes of meeting him, he may tell a guy
friend, “hey, I met this great girl, let me introduce you to her”.
8. Don’t be desperate. It is okay that people know
that you are available. Guys like the women that they meet to be very
friendly but discriminating. They want to know that its okay to approach
you and if you do invest time in getting to know them that they are
special — just like you.
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